Since the original poster has already purchased it, I'll just add a comment.
It feels like this isn't just about choosing a machine; it's also about deciding on the overall technological direction.
Shortwave and VHF DX are one direction, digital radios and APRS/MMDVM are another, and satellite and EME are a third.
The three directions (and potentially others) have different learning requirements, and the machine functionality needs also differ. The X6100 is primarily designed for the first direction, while the 5DR falls under the second direction, allowing satellite use but not being particularly suitable.
First, clarify your interests and needs in a specific direction, then you can buy the equipment without delay.